Sunday, March 1, 2009

I always knew it....free is my favorite flavor.

Wow, so much has happened since the last time I blogged. I am no longer upset about eHarmony. I still think they are a piece of crap website, and I am over it. So instead I bumped into a "Free for girls" dating website. Its not really free for girls. I just say it is. This new website is awesome. Paying "Featured Members" can send and receive emails from the non-paying members i.e. Me! I decided what the heck, I will go and create a profile, and load some pics of myself up, and see what happens and if someone wants to talk to me....like the dude from the movie "He's Just Not That Into You" said...., "If a guy really wants to talk to you, he will find a way to do so". So if someone from this website wants to talk to me, he will have to pay to do so.

Total cost of this new website = ZERO. Amount of effort = about 10 minutes of my time.

eHarmony Total cost = $175 for 6 months of nothing. Amount of effort = like 3 hours for the initial questionnaire and about 100 hours later for nothing.

So back to this awesome blossom new website. I created a profile and sat pretty and waited. The very next day I was overwhelmed with the amount of response I received. I had so many flirts and emails from paying members, I almost thought someone/something was playing a trick on me. I emailed back a few of the suitors and they are all actual men! WOW...I love it.

And tonight, for the first time in a LONG time, I received an email from a guy whom I was like...OMG....this is who I want. He is 38, 6 feet, white, he's a teacher, and he so cute. OMG....I so want him. I emailed him back tonight, so we will see what happens with him. I also emailed this other dude who has the prettiest blue eyes. I am done giving a chance to men who I think would be a good match for me...instead I am going to go back to dating men who I want. I am just going to have restrain when I meet them. As old fashion as it may seem...making a guy wait, is the way to go. I think its important to always leave them wanting more and looking forward to things intead of letting them open all the presents before Christmas!

On a side note. I had myself some 24 year old lovin this weekend! Haha....I know. Lots of restrain. So I can say I have officially had my first one night stand. Before last night, I never understood how guys could just have sex with someone and be done with it. Now I get it. My little guy, he was so so cute. Law student, nice boy and a total cutie pie....but once we were done, he wanted to hang out and cuddle, and I was like....Ok, get me out of here. He walked me to my car, I gave him a half assed hug good bye (you know the type where you only hug with one arm). He then said, "It was nice meeting you"...and I thought..."you too Jr.". And that was that. Cute boy, I had a good time, got my release and now I will be more pleasant to be around in the upcoming week! Oh, and on a side embarrassing note, I had ZERO intentions of being naked with someone else last night....so I was not prepared i.e. legs were not shaved and my friend down stairs was not primped. Haha...oh well. I don't remember Jr. having any complaints.

Here is to beginning March with a Bang....literally. Cheers! Hahaha....